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diff --git a/bookmarks/changing your culture.txt b/bookmarks/changing your culture.txt deleted file mode 100755 index bc90a60..0000000 --- a/bookmarks/changing your culture.txt +++ /dev/null @@ -1,53 +0,0 @@ ---- -title: Changing Your Culture -date: 2014-09-21T13:42:08Z -source: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2014/09/changing-your-culture/ -tags: health, purchase - ---- - -The more I travel and the more I interact with people from other cultures, the -more I see just how stressed out many Americans are. There is a lot of freedom -here but also much tension with so many people having beliefs like “I’m not -good enough,” “I need more,” and “I have to work harder.” People here put a lot -of effort into things that don’t make them happy, and then they escape into -addictions like watching tons of TV. - -We have abundance but not enough appreciation. There’s an addictive quality to -this more-More-MORE obsession. People here don’t realize that if they can’t -appreciate a sip, they won’t appreciate a gulp either. - -Influencing Your Culture - -When you become an oddball within your culture, you can keep quiet and slink -into the background, or you can speak up and share your observations and -lessons. When you do the latter, you gain the ability to influence your culture -to become more aligned with your path. Obviously not everyone will follow your -lead, but some will find your ideas worthy of exploration and experimentation, -and they’ll want to hear more and collaborate. - -Surely there will be others within your culture who’ve gone down similar paths, -and they’ll begin to influence cultural shifts as well as they speak up more -and more. As these people begin to find each other and connect more deeply and -more often, they may even contribute to a movement to help shift the larger -culture. This can take many years to play out, but it’s exciting to behold. - -If you feel that you’re all alone in your oddballness, that probably isn’t -accurate. There are probably lots of others like you out there, but you haven’t -found them yet. That’s likely because you’re invisible to them. If you’d like -to connect with other like-minded oddballs, that becomes much more likely if -you broadcast your desires and let the world know how you really think and -feel. Sure, you’ll get some judgment for doing that, but so what? Own it -anyway. Stand tall in being yourself. This will eventually attract the -attention of others who think as you do. - -The alternative is to hide. If you have to hide for safety reasons, that may be -your best bet for now, but if there’s no physical danger in speaking your mind, -then do so. You’ll be glad you did. In fact, you’ll wonder why you kept quiet -for so long unnecessarily. - -If your ideal culture seems far removed from your current culture, you could -leave to find a culture that’s a closer match for you if you think one exists. -Or you could stay put and strive to become a changemaker within your own -culture, such as by gathering like-minded people together. - |