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Most people ask this the way you might ask what someone does for a living, as a conversation starter. Or ender, depending.
Some people genuinely what to know though, which always catches me off guard. There's the answer everyone expects: you can drive here from Athens in 7 hours. But according the guestbook at the house where we stay some people that bike down here from Atlanta. That takes a few days. You could also take the river, I'd guess that would have you looking at a couple weeks.
We drive, but we have three kids. It takes more like 10 hours. If you don't rush it. And there's no need to rush it. We're traveling after all, which I take to mean, more or less, wandering aimlessly, or close to aimlessly, and slowly.
Not to sound like a fortune cookie, but there's nowhere to go really. No matter how fast you go you'll still end up right here.
On one hand the idea of "here" has become a kind of testimony to how western culture can turn eastern philosophy into meaningless platitudes. On the other hand I think there's also a profound truth there about the nature of existence.
There are a thousand forking paths of connection between you and I and we can choose any of them to get to each other. Birds might be one. The sea might be another. There are so many paths, so many thread to follow it's impossible to even concieve of them all, let alone follow them in any detail, with any passion.
"I have also learned that if I let myself pursue a subject in travel, it helps inform me about the other subjects of travel. When I began traveling fourteen years ago, I spent a lot of time alone in the desert, and being in my mid-twenties, I knew very little about the world. But by wandering alone, some things started to interest me: what is that cactus? What kind of beetle is that? " http://www.notesfromtheroad.com/dryworld/bahia-palace_06.html "The subjects chose me over time, but in each case, the subject that you pursue to discover in travel informs you of bigger themes in travel. An example is watching the birds here above the Marrakech cityscape. People who identify birds while they travel are often surprised that the habit causes them to soak in much bigger themes about the world: watching birds inadvertently educates the birding traveler on subjects like geography, habitat and ecology, and in a way that is much more profound than studying the same subjects in textbooks. By watching birds while traveling, I have learned that the habit of visually scanning horizons, skies, trees and cliff ledges, I have come to literally see differently; almost as if I have created a heightened sense of the three-dimensions of my surroundings. In this way, birding has made me more aware of urban spaces. If I have started to gain an interest in urban architecture, I have to say the birds did it."
I don't want to make my daughters do anything, I just want to point them toward things and let them pick up the threads that interest them, pull on them, see where they lead. That's how I see parenting, not unlike being a travel guide, you point in the directions you know, maybe they go that way, maybe they choose another.
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